Right or Wrong

Many a times we are faced with the dilemma in life about what is right and what is wrong?

What might be wrong for you might not be wrong for someone else.
Right and wrongs
Dos and donts
Depends a lot on one’s upbringing, culture and society from where he/she hails from.

Even generation gap plays a major role in the change of ethos, values and culture.
In this fast growing world, we tend to flow with the current trend and especially in a country like India where family, culture and society play a very important role in one’s life, a major question that pops up is …

What we think right is it what we ACTUALLY think or is it what the society thinks is right ??

Most of the time these two “rights” are conflicting and often the answer to the question henceforth is complicated 🙂

Even we tend to meet diffrent genre of people in the process of growing up and sometimes their thoughts also influence our value system.

So back to square one how do we decide whats right and whats wrong ??

Now this is how I do it step 1 and 2 are simple but step 4 might take lot of will power and emotional strength

Step 1 : write it down. Writing clearly always helps than making notes in mind.

Write down what you want think is right and what you want to do …

Step 2 : next think… and
-Write the implications it will have on the people you love (parents, friends, partner, kid)
– Risk factor involved… What are the odds in the decision you are going to make..
– Compare the above two points and finally fill the last point can you LIVE WITH IT ???
Knowing the odds and the implications if you still think that you have to get it done…
Then move to step 3

Step 3 : Revisit Step 2.
And still if you are sureeeeee
Then certainly you are RIGHT … Cos its your life n you have all the rights to go for it …

Step 4 : stick to your decision …
Cos now nothing else matters …

Eventually what matters is your inner peace …

SO if you think you are moving in the direction to achieve it then you are RIGHT … 😀